Weddings are wonderful for many reasons. Love, family, celebration. But on the practical side, they are great for setting up homemaking. It would have been a challenge for John and I to buy everything we needed in the kitchen, bedroom, bathroom and general home decor. With a wedding and a couple showers we had everything we needed and more. Many of our wedding gifts have long been used up, worn out, broken or gone out of fashion and left the behind. We have slowly replaced bedding, towels, dishes, knives, utensils, candle holders, etc over the years. However, as I wander our home I find a few treasures still here from that outpouring of love from family and friends on our special day.
I didn't pull out every single thing but you get the idea. Pyrex lives forever, mixing bowls, cake pans of every size and pie plates continue to serve us well. Almost all of them were clear. You will also note the Chicago cutlery knife and sharpener (no that knife is not sharp anymore) and the brown visionware spoon that went with the brown visionware pots and pans we registered for.
The formal stuff. I still love my china and yes indeed I do still keep the relish tray in its original box. That crystal pitcher is so heavy you couldn't lift it to pour if you added water so it gets used mainly for flowers.
We had 2 precious ring bearers who gave us this after the rehearsal. Reminds us 23 years later we can always be on our honeymoon.
You know how some little girls play house and imagine what their future home will look like? You know how as they grow up they dream of getting married and having a home of their own? You know how they might have started with a decorating plan for their room? My sister-in-law had already started collecting her wedding flatware and another friend had bought a set of dishes. You know how girls are like that? I wasn't that girl. I should have been voted most unlikely to marry at 19.
I had literally never given any thought to getting married or how my future home would look or be decorated. Not that I didn't want a decorated home but I had just never thought about to how you put everything together. And, as you can imagine, neither had John.
So there we were wandering around Dayton's trying to figure out what we needed for the rest of our lives. From a practical standpoint we were able to write down baking pans, measuring cups, mixing bowls, etc. Back then they didn't have a scanning gun that let you chose the exact mixing bowl you wanted just the general category. Then the tricky part came in, you wrote down your decorating scheme. What are your colors? Because of John's sister getting married the year before us and not getting any towels the color they registered for we happened to have given some thought to this one question. Burgundy, black and gray towels came to us in many brands and shades. Then we got to the kitchen. What are your kitchen colors? And I am sort of thinking, "kitchens have colors?" At the time John was living in an apartment with bright salmon colored countertops that should have seen the end of their useful life a few years before. I didn't know much but I knew I wasn't going to decorate around that color. Having absolutely no idea what to put down we finally wrote down "earth tones" thinking that means neutral and we can then put with whatever color we do eventually decide on.
Luckily most people decided against giving us kitchen things with a color because it became clear what a mistake it was when I started opening earth toned gifts. Brown towels and potholders. And a set of mixing bowls that were Orange, green and yellow.
23 years later I am still using the ugliest thing we got for our wedding.
The Orange and Green have broke but the yellow bowl lives on.
I don't know if it is simply irony or if that experience actually played a role in determining our life work. John proceeded to go to school for home design and we ran a business in which knowing all the latest design and decorating trends, especially for kitchens was a vital aspect of our success. People now come to us for advice on designing and decorating their homes. We've come a long way from those two clueless kids sitting on the floor of Dayton's filling out a registry.
In case your are wondering what I dream of these days I thought I would put a few items from my pintrest page on for your viewing pleasure.
I do have a master bath that needs re-doing and this would look great in there.
Our new kitchen is a little more contemporary with gloss white cabinets and black appliances. Would love to replace our carpet with dark wood floors. Haven't decided yet if I want to do dark countertops though. That sounds a little high maintenance. Age has taught me to consider both design and function.
Isabelle's room would look great like this. Although her and John and plotting to build a loft bed...
We have identified a corner of our dining room where we are going to build a closet with a laundry room behind it. I love being able to visualize. Also, love the black laquered doors they put on this. I just saw black doors in an older home that had been remodeled to have a more contemporary design and it was fabulous. Keep the trim white and just paint the doors. Sounds crazy but totally works.
The other day I was talking to a girlfriend, one that thought a lot about her future home growing up. She finally says, "I have to go, Lottie and I are re-wallpapering a room in her doll house." I started to laugh. Her 6 year old was already preparing for her future home. I think I see a decorating project for Isabelle and I in the future. I wouldn't want her to end up with brown dish towels. Unless of course that is the current trend.